by Armin Brott
It’s hard to admit, but like it or not, your baby could be running your life. She cries, you pick her up. She’s hungry, you feed her. She fills her diaper, you change it. She wants to play, you play. She needs a nap, you drive around the block twelve times until she [...]
Tags: accept, Baby, charge, control, life, newborn, Parenting, parents, run, schedule
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by Armin Brott
Dear Mr. Dad: My wife just had our first child. I’m insanely happy and I want to get more involved but I’ve never been around babies before and have absolutely no idea what I’m supposed to do with him. What do you suggest?
Armin answers: Although it may be tempting to just sit around [...]
Tags: Baby, Care, cues, dad, diapers, encourage, head, hold, interact, newborn, play, prepare, start, talk
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Dear Mr. Dad. I’m taking a childbirth class with my wife but it really seems geared toward the perfect birth. I know they can’t cover every single unexpected thing that could happen, but how can we prepare for contingencies?
Armin answers: As important as childbirth education classes are, there are a few things [...]
Tags: assertive, childbirth, class, dad, Education, experience, give-in, mom, pregnant, teach
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Dear Mr. Dad: My two-year-old son has started having temper tantrums. The ones that happen at home are no fun, but the ones that happen in public places—like the supermarket—are downright embarrassing. Is there anything I can do about this problem?
Armin answers: Temper tantrums are most common among two and three-year-olds, which is [...]
Tags: acting out, behavior, ignore, public, reinforce, tantrum, toddler, two year old
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Dear Mr. Dad: A close friend of mine wants to have a baby but she has no interest in being in a relationship with a man. I’ve been telling her that her baby will be a lot better off with a father around but she says dads don’t bond with kids and that [...]
Tags: bond, connection, effect, father, friend, important, Parenting, role
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Dear Mr. Dad: We have a three-month old baby. My wife really doesn’t want to go back to work so soon, but the sad fact is that we can’t get along without her salary. She’s really unhappy about having to leave the baby. Is there anything I can do to help her feel [...]
Tags: Baby, go back, help, mom, reassure, support, work
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by Armin Brott
As hard as it may be to imagine, there exists a rather basic parenting issue that regularly generates even more controversy than circumcision or the disposable-versus-cloth diapers-debate: whether or not to have your child sleep in the same bed as you and your partner.
Fortunately (or unfortunately, depending on where you stand on the [...]
Tags: agree, arrangements, Baby, child, co-sleep, independence, safety, sleep
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by Armin Brott
For a lot of couples, the question about whether to have another child isn’t really a question, it’s a given. For others, though, the issue is more complicated. And most of the problems have to do with exactly what you’re going through in your home: one spouse wants a second (or third) child [...]
Tags: ability, Baby, child, childhood, dad, finances, firstborn, labor, love, Parenting, Pregnancy, prepare, second, sibling
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by Armin Brott
For most adults, occasional nightmares are a normal part of life. But that doesn’t stop parents from feeling helpless when their children wake up screaming in the middle of the night. And the more frequently those nightmares happen, the more parents worry.
Before we go on, let me clarify two terms people sometimes use [...]
Tags: calm, child, comfort, dad, nightmare, Parenting, sleep
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Dear Mr. Dad: I’m a new father. I haven’t had much experience with infants and I want to be involved in my daughter’s care, but every time I try to pick her up, she starts to fret. How can I feel more competent?
Armin answers: Few things can make a man feel less like [...]
Tags: Baby, calm, comfort, competent, cry, dad, hold, new, newborn, relax, uneasy
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