Effacement, Dilation and Station
In most pregnancies, at about 37 weeks, your doctor or midwife will begin checking your cervix for effacement, dilation and station. She will then report back to you the results. For first time moms this can be confusing. If you don’t know what effacement, dilation and station are, then when your provider reports that you are, “One centimeter, 25%, -2,” you may feel very confused. Below are explanations of each stage of your body’s preparation for delivering your baby.
Effacement
Prior to pregnancy and in the first and second trimester, as well as much of the third trimester, your cervix is long and thick. As labor nears it begins to shorten and thin out. This action is referred to as effacement. As your cervix begins to efface, the plug keeping the entrance to the uterus sealed is released. This is called your mucus plug and it may contain some blood.
Effacement is generally measured in percentages by doctors and midwives. When you have an exam your provider will tell you that it is anywhere from 0% to 100% which means not effaced at all to completely effaced and thin. When it is completely effaced it becomes a part of the uterine wall, allowing the baby to pass through.
Dilation
Until you are late in your third trimester, your cervix should stay tight and closed with no dilation. Dilation is the process of the mouth of the cervix opening and widening, which allows your baby to pass through. This is measured in centimeters. For most of your pregnancy it should be 0 centimeters. In order to deliver your baby your cervix needs to stretch open to 10 centimeters. As the cervix dilates, some people describe cramping and pressure, similar to what you would feel during menstruation.
If you begin dilating in the second trimester or at a rapid rate before the last month of your pregnancy it can be a sign of premature labor. If this is the case your doctor or midwife will advise you on what to do next.
Station
When your provider tells you about your baby’s station, she is referring to how far down his head has come into your pelvis. If your baby has dropped, but has not yet settled into your pelvis to begin his decent, it is measured in centimeters as a negative station. This negative measurement goes from -3 to -1. Once your baby has settled into your pelvis, but before he starts his descent to the birth canal, it is referred to as a zero (0) station. Once your baby starts heading towards the cervix, it is referred to as a positive station from 1 to 3. During this time it is likely that you will feel an increase of pressure and pain in your pelvic bone and vaginal area.
It is good for a mom-to-be to know where her baby is positioned and how her body is cooperating in the weeks leading up to delivery. Some doctors will check you but not relay any information to you unless you ask. If you want to know and are not told, or if you are not offered a cervical check, ask your provider to tell you or to check you so that you are aware
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sarah says...
cool! i just found out that my baby is in the 0 station and 2 cent and 75% efafed
Elena says...
At 36 weeks I was told to be 80% effaced 0 station but today at 37 weeks I decided to not find out.. otherwise I may be fooling myself to beleive any day now. This article was really helpful and explained things very well!!!
anxiousity says...
today I am 37 weeks my numbers were 2, 0, -4. How can I dialate without effacement?
shakira says...
i am 37 weeks and 1 day. I had my cerclage removed on tuesday. I found out that I was 1 cm dialated and that I was 50% effaced. I am so happy!!!
Michele says...
I don’t think that i know what station my baby is at. But I was told that he was head down but he was still pretty high up. I am so ready for this child to come. I am due on 1-20-09. I think that is too far away.
SL says...
Michelle, think of your cervix like a rose. If you pick the bud when it is firm it is not ready to come out and may never open. If you wait until the bud matures, it will open softly and blossom beautifully. Your baby will come when it’s due and you will have fond memories of all the aches and pains at the end.
Hillary says...
I was checked at my 36 weeks appointment, on Jan 2, 2009. My doctor said that I was 2 CM dilated and 50% effaced. Then on Jan. 6Th I had a fall down the stairs. The baby is fine. They checked me again, because I was having contractions. I was still only 2 CM dilated and 50% effaced. This is my second child. My first child came with in 30min. of my water breaking. They had checked me when I went to the hospital because of contractions. I was 2 CM dilated and 75% effaced. Lol.
Hillary says...
I was checked at my 36 weeks appointment, on Jan 2, 2009. My doctor said that I was 2 CM dilated and 50% effaced. Then on Jan. 6Th I had a fall down the stairs. The baby is fine. They checked me again, because I was having contractions. I was still only 2 CM dilated and 50% effaced. This is my second child. My first child came with in 30min. of my water breaking. They had checked me when I went to the hospital because of contractions. I was 2 CM dilated and 75% effaced. Lol. My contractions with my first was right for birth so they broke my water. then 30 mins. later there she was. Now I am waiting for my little boy to arrive. My due date is Jan. 30Th, 2009. I don’t think this one is going to be as easy though. Lol.
Jennifer says...
I was checked at my 37th week appointment, January 2nd. I was told I was 3 cm dilated, 75% effaced, and 0 station. I’m really hoping this little girl decides to come soon!!! I guess I’ll find out if there are any changes at my appointment tomorrow. HOPEFULLY THERE IS!!! My back has been killing me for the past week and in the past two days I’ve had a lot of cramping feelings.
mommyof2 says...
I am 39 weeks 1 day. I was put in hospital yesterday for induction and put on pitocin. It made me have very rapid and strong contractions but they did not do anything for me. I am the same as when I went in. 3cm dilated and 70% effaced. I have an appt to see my Dr tomarrow to talk about other options or another induction. Has this ever happened to anyone? What happened in your situation?
Hillary says...
well i went to my 38 week appointment still only 2,50%,3
Laura says...
Well I am 37w and 2d and was actually at the hospital last night and today for regular contractions. I am 3-4cm dilated and 60% effaced. My doc wants me to wait atleast another week, but if I go into labor again he wont stop it. He didn’t stop it last night either, it kinda stopped on its own. I was 3cm and 70% with my first baby at 35weeks and carried him until 37w and 5d. every pregnancy is different. You can walk around dilated for weeks or you could go into labor at any time. The baby will come when he or she is ready.
Hally says...
I went for my 37 week checkup on 1/19 and I was -2, barely 1 cm, and 50% effaced. I have had period like cramps for the past few days and my waddle is getting sadder by the day. I am so ready!
Rebecca says...
40+ weeks, only 1cm, baby is high up – this is definitely going to be a fully developed baby. My first and second were 42 and 41 weeks – both were strong, nursed easily, and slept through the night (waking up only once to nurse) since they were born. Hang in there ladies – the extra time is worth it!
Pearl says...
I am 39 weeks 1cm, about 80% effaced, an at zero station. I am so ready !! I got another appt on 1/26/09 my due date is 01/31/09. I have been having trouble walking around for the past 48 hours an the triage said it’s my body releasing a hormone to stretch open my pelvic for delivery…I feel this baby girl don’t wanna get out!! Lol
Staci says...
I’m at 38 weeks and my doctor hasn’t checked for dilation, effacement and station yet. Is it because we have a planned c-section set for this Saturday? Does it matter if I’m starting labor if we know I’ll be doing the c-section? For my son, I hadn’t started dilating, he was still in the negative station and I don’t know the effacement, so I was induced at 41 1/2 weeks. I stayed at the hospital, went into labor, and didn’t progress past 5 cm dilated so we had to do a c-section.
melissa says...
I am 37 weeks and I am 70% effaced, 0 dilated, and baby is at +1 station. He has been that low for several weeks, but I don’t feel pressure. Is that weird? He has always been real low and I have always been comfortable.
wiell says...
I am 90% efface, 3 cm and -3 (station). my doc believes its could be as soon as tonight. I cant wait to see my son. I am 39 wks
Justina says...
I am due in exactly one week- on Valentine’s Day. I am currently 2cm dilated, 50% effaced, and -1 station. I have been having contractions for about a week now and will hopefully deliver my first baby- a boy- any day next week, but hopefully not on Friday the 13th!!!
becca says...
i am 37 weeks today. i have been on partial bed rest since dec and full best rest for the past three weeks for preterm labor and high bloodpressure. i went in yesturday and i am 100% and 1 cm i don’t know about station i didn’t ask. what my biggest fear is now is that she is going to stay in there for the full 40 weeks or longer cause i ahven’t been that active. i normally would be walking 3-4 miles a day because of my job i workin a hospital and do alot of running around
carrie says...
Hello im 36 weeks tommrow and im dialiated to 1-2 cm… i had to go in feb 1st for contractions and they gave me a shot to stop them.
My baby is all the way down, the dr felt the head on the inside today at my app. i have had period cramps all week, felt nauseated and have had a lot of bowel movements, have been cleaning like a bird….
so what is going ot happen? today i had a little brownish discharge on the toilet paper. she said i was thnned out, but didn’t say a percentage.
mary says...
I am 38 weeks 2 days a “good” 4-5 cm dilated, 100% effaced, baby’s head is at a 0 station and this is my second pregnancy. I am flabbergasted I am still walking around and not in active labor (I have been like this for at least 4 days since my OB examined me). I am more than a week more pregnant than I have ever been…I feel like this is never gonna happen -although I know it will probably be soon.
Kara says...
I am 37 weeks and three days. I just got back from the doctor. She said i was 70% affaced but still not dilated. I am due march 6th, i am so done with this, and not feeling like waiting three more weeks. But its my first baby so i hear i most like will have to.
carrie says...
I am currently 37 weeks, 5 days i think..i lost my mucus plug on feb 13… i went in on the 14th with contractions, just not strong enough. at my last exxam last week i was 1 cm 70% effaced. how much longer?? this is my second. i got induced at 41 weeks with my first??/please help
Kara says...
I wish i knew how much longer for you. But if this is your second i am sure you will make your due date atleast, according to what friends and fam have told me. I am 39 weeks friday ( one more day) and monday i still wasn’t dilated and still was only 70% effaced. I am so frusterated. any words of wisdom?
Katie says...
this is my first pregnancy, my doctor doesnt really tell me much information but he said im at -1. That was 2 weeks ago. im now 39 weeks & 1 day still no cramping but some lower back pains come & go. Im gettin really impatient & wondering if she will come anytime soon?
Kari says...
I’m 31w6d. I had a pelvic check today and I’m 2cm dialated, 50% effaced, and at a 0 station. I’m hoping that my baby stays in longer!!!! =(
Jana says...
hi i’m 34 weeks and 4 days. My midwife told me today that i’m 2 cm, 75% and -2. She wants to see now every week. I hope my son stays in their for at least 3 weeks. However I will take it easy and pray for it.
ANNA says...
READING THIS HELPED ME…I AM 4 CENTIMETERS DILATED…AND I THINK 75 PERCENT EFFACED….BUT I DONT KNOW THE STATION OF MY BABY…I JUST KNOW THAT HE IS HEAD DOWN…AND THEY SAY THAT HE IS SITTING LOW….
Carol says...
My daughter is 40 weeks. Last Tuesday at her appointment she was 1.5 cm and 90% effaced. We didn’t think to ask about the station. I talked with her tonight and she told me she had a green/brown thick mucous so I’m assuming her mucous plug is breaking down. She is carrying extremely low having a lot of pressure on her pubic bone and groin. She has an appointment this Tuesday so hopefully she will have her daughter soon. Her doctor had told her that in order for her to dilate more she needed to have contractions. I found that funny considering that would more than likely mean she is in labor. Her doctor has stated that she wants to induce before her due date which is 3/28. I find a lot of doctors now are wanting to induce at least a week before the due date. I say just let your body do what it will naturally do.
Stacy says...
Some of you people are unbelievable. The average pregnancy is 40 WEEKS, and some well-respected MDs, such as Dr. Robert Bradley of the Bradley Method of Natural Childbirth believe it to be a week longer than that. NOT 37 weeks. NOTt 39. Quit trying to rush nature/God and be happy that your baby will be born developed and ready to thrive in the world. Women who fight off preterm labor would love to have healthy, full-term children. I have pregnancy induced hypertension AND gestational diabetes and am still not being induced until ON my due date. If baby is thriving in your womb and you are having a healthy pregnancy, leave things alone until the right time comes!
Lauren says...
I am 37wks, 4cm, 80%ef, and my daughter won’t make up her mind. she floats between 0 station and -2…. it’s driving me nuts! 6 hours of reg contractions 8 mins apart and no change. this is my 2nd child, and proving to be more stuborn then my son who was a week over due and the doctor had to break my water.
Lauren says...
Stacy, MYOB. Babies are full term between 36-42 weeks. I am carrying twins and they will be taking them at 37 weeks and considering them full term. So maybe you should read up on pregnancy before you start blasting ppl. “FYI, average is not 40″. Its between 36-40. Get it str8!
Amy says...
I’m 39 weeks, 4 days and started to dilate/efface at 36 weeks. From weeks 36-38, I was 1cm dilated and 50-60% effaced. At my appointment this week (39 weeks, 2 days) I was told I’m 3cm dilated and 70% effaced. I’ve been having contractions for weeks but nothing regular. I have some errands to run today and plan on doing a fair amount of walking around (mall, grocery store…etc) so hopefully that will help this little one make his appearance! This is my 2nd pregnancy and with my first son, I was induced at 37 weeks due to pre-eclampsia so I’ve never made it this far and am way uncomfortable!
By the way Stacy, both my RE (fertility doctor) and OB told me that babies are considered full-term at 37 weeks. I see 4 different doctors in my practice and they all have different guidelines for induction dates….ranging from 38 weeks to 41 weeks….food for thought.
EJ says...
The average pregnancy is 38-42 weeks. A baby should not be considered overdue or be induced until after 42 weeks. The only reason that an induction should be made prior to that is if there is something wrong with the placenta or the fluid becomes low (or other problems of course). What would all you women be doing back when you were born and being induced was very rarely done?
You would have waited like our mothers and grandmothers did.
Be patient. Let your little one come when they are good and ready.
Lori says...
I totally agree with Stacy, the women on here are freaking out when there babies aren’t here by 36 weeks, Lauren for real, we know that babies can come between 36 and 40 weeks but an average pregnancy is 40 WEEKS. I have read my facts. How sad that you go to an induction happy OBGYN, what if your twins aren’t ready to be delivered??? They’ll come when they’re ready, for your sake I hope they’re healthy.
Lucy says...
I think that it is a shame for people to judge or be harsh to people about their posts. In other words you (Stacy) should just give your opinon nicely and reassure other women that its okay to carry up to 40wks. Lori as for you commenting on Lauren, for her it is different because she is carrying multiples. Usually multiples are not carried as long single births. Everyone just lay off others!
elan says...
im 41 weeks an 2 days now feeling very very tired!!! im 3-4 cm dilated, fully effaced and i dnt know bout stationing but i havent had regular contractions. i had my show and have had some pain since my membrane sweep!!! but nothing regular!!! my waters still havent broken either!!!!
i dont mind that im overdue but people are entitled to feel how they want to feel they arent suppose to induce u until 12 days after ur due date unless there are complications but if people are happy to be induced then i dont see that as a problem i would love to be induced ryt now because it becomes tiring and ur backache is agonising and the amount of times u need the toilet and the frustration of waiting can sometyms b too much!!!! sympathy would be nice!!! some people carry bad!!! no need to judge every1s experience is different!!!!! good luck every1 it’ll be worth the wait no matter how long!!!!!!
monica says...
hello well im 40 weeks yesterday and still no baby i am getting really impatient im having bloody show and little contractions but nothing serious the doctor made me another appt but she said that she doubts that i will make it until then….i wish this baby would come already i want to meet him. i am 3 cm and at +1 station in not sure on %
Traci says...
I am 35 weeks today. Last week at my appt I was 3cm, 50% effaced and 0 station. I was in a severe car accident at 33 weeks and spent 9 days in the hospital. I haven’t been “in labor” but I do have braxton hicks all the time. My doctors gave me the steroid injections to develop her lungs and all, but they told me to be sure and come to the hospital at the first signs of labor because I will have to have a c- section. Due to injuries from the seat belt, they think I will have placenta previa if my uterus goes thru labor. Although this will be my 6th baby, I never really feel contractions until I’m well into active labor, usually around 8-9 cm. So my question for you gals is how am can I know? I never have any symptoms that I know of. Oh and I lost my mucus plug the day after the wreck. Have you guys had any different symptoms that indicate labor other than pain and contractions and bloody show? Thanks for your help! Due mothers day, May 10th
Dawn says...
I am 37 weeks 4 days and was told that I was 3 1/2 to 4 cm dilated and close to 80% efface and baby is still high. A week ago I was 3 cm dilated and 70% efface. My first baby was born naturally 1 day before my due date and was 8 lbs 11 oz and 21 1/2 inches long. I asked to be induced a week early with the 2nd baby due to having painful/uncomfortable hemorroids and she was 8 lbs 13 oz and 21 inches long and came out with 2 fractures on her forearm due to her size. I will ask to be induce again with this third baby due to the size of the previous babies if I don’t have her naturally. Some people are different because I know someone who went full term and still had a 5 lb baby. Some times there are circumstances that people should be induced other than medical reasons, such as having larger babies. I rather have a vaginal delivery than a c-section due to a large baby that can’t be passed through the birth canal safely. With my 2nd baby who was born a week early she slept through the night at the hospital so who is to say the longer you wait the better your baby sleeps or is better off (remember she had 2 fractures due to how large she was).
melissa says...
i’m 36 weeks and i went to the doctor’s today and he told me that the babys head is down but she hasnt dropped and my cervix hasnt even begun to open. is this normal? has anyone been thru this?
Ashley says...
at 34 1/2 weeks I was already 2 cm dialated, and 75% effaced with the baby sitting at -1. although I had also started to go into labor, and the doctors chose to stop it with medication since it was so early. it seems a little crazy that I had already gotten to that point so early. now i’m in my 36th week, and everything has stayed the same. this whole pregnancy thing is so random.
Rebecca says...
I’m 40 weeks and 4 days and still no little one. No contractions, no bloody show. I’m 1 1/2 cm dilated at 75% effaced. My husband is more wanting her to hurry up and come if that means me being induced. I don’t care ether way as long as she comes out a happy healthy baby. Best of luck to everyone who is expecting.
Becki says...
I am in week 38 and had an appointment today. I am at 2cm and my little munchkin is sitting at -1 station. I did not ask about effacement. My doc thinks within this next week he’ll be joining us. I’m really excited! I personally would not choose to be induced even though I have some really bad pain (pelvis separation and a thrombosed hemorrhoid) because induction highers your chances of having a C-section. I was induced with my daughter (now almost 6yrs old) a month early due to pre-eclampsia and she was 5lbs 4oz. and 19in. It was difficult for her to breastfeed and keep up her body temperature. It was sad that I had to be induced and she was so not ready.
But like others said, and I agree, TO EACH THEIR OWN!! I would just hope that those who are choosing to be induced for non-medical reasons, that you will take your baby’s health into consideration first and foremost.
Happy birthing!! And I pray everyone will have a healthy baby (or two….)
Take care ladies!!!!!!!
Becki says...
Oh, and my daughter who is almost 6… she was fortunately born vaginally. She is one of the tallest in her class and very healthy! So if you must get an induction, a healthy baby can most certainly be the outcome!! Every pregnancy is different!
(just thought I’d add that real quick)
Denise says...
Hi. I am very sympathetic, and empathetic to everyone and their stories. I am 41 weeks and 4 days. I went to my doctor yesterday and he told me nothing is going on. How is that even possible? I have seen white discharge on my panties now for at least a month, and since last month, my baby has turned. I have been having contractions after walking and sex, however no baby. I don’t understand what’s going on. This is my third child. My last is 17 years so my doctor said, it’s going to be like a 1st child. I need her to come now. I am so uncomfortable and I cry sometimes because I do so want to hold and see her. How much longer do I have to wait?
CCS says...
I’m at 38 weeks and 3 days. I had my 38 week check up and I was 2cm, 50%, -1. My baby is weighing small (asian genes) so I figured we’d go to full term/overdue with her.
We went to the hospital yesterday cause I was “leaking” something and wanted to make sure my amnio sac hadn’t broken. Thankfully that wasn’t the case. For those who are wondering the same thing, you can check it yourself by buying litmus (pH) paper at any drugstore. If the stuff coming out is acidic (and creamy) then its just your normal discharge. If it is neutral pH (and clear and smells like bleach and constantly leaking – it has to be all of these!!) then go get it looked at cause its possible that your water has broken.
I was also having mild contractions, but they were not regular. While I was there I got another check and I was almost at 3cm, 70% and -1. So the contractions were doing something at least!
I was told to look for the following signs of early labour: bloody show, regular contractions (lasting >30s, 3-5 mins apart), water breaking.
I got the bloody show this morning, so I stayed at home just in case. I’m hoping she’ll come soon cause I’m really excited to meet her, but after reading all this, it seems that it still could be a few days away!!
All the best everyone!
TLF says...
I had my 38 wk appointment today and am 1 cm and 100% effaced. I have contractions if I go on walks. I am going to be walking alot until this baby comes out! I am so ready!
TLF says...
Hope he comes out soon. Does it take really long after you are completely effaced?
Bew-T says...
Ok so I’m 38 weeks, 6 days. I am 1-2 cm, 60-70%, (station is a -1).
Doctor is inducing at 39 weeks, 4 days due to Gestational Diabetes.
I sure hope labor comes quick!
Jessica says...
I can totally related to a couple of stories. I am 37 wks 3 days 4-5 cm, 80% effaced, and 0 station. I was having contractions in and out that moved me from 4 to 4-5 within 2 hours then it stopped. I am ready to have this baby. I have pregnancy induced high blood pressure and I am getting more and more impatient. I also thought that this baby would be here by now since I have had twins that were induced and arrived here a year ago. They were wonderful and were rather healthy for being 35 wks 5 days so it is very possible especially if you have high blood pressure issues to have a healthy happy baby/babies.
I was a little offended by the chastising for wanting to have their babies here. Yes it is up to god but they are more then welcome to feel that way they do without being ridiculed. Also my doctor had told me that if I were 38 wks they would have no problem inducing me.
mary says...
im 39 weeks and 2 days and i just found out im 1 cm and 70% effaced :]
mommyof2soon3 says...
Gosh I am glad I am not the only one ready to be done. LOL.
I am 36w3d. I have been having contractions since 27weeks. IN and out of hospital, cervical changes and effacment etc. Now that I am at a stage I can safely deliver her, all the changes stop at night. I go from being 3.5cm and 75% effaced during the day to being long at night. Go Figure.
I am done. But I just walk a lot. If she comes then she is obviously ready, if not, tomorrow is another day.
I WILL NOT put my feet up anymore.
Be Patient, Be Patient says...
37 weeks, 1 day – I am so done and have to keep telling myself to be patient! This is my second baby, and due to pain and complications with my first one, we induced at 37 weeks. One comment on here, in particular, totally put it in perspective. My first son was tiny, had difficulty gaining weight, and didn’t sleep well for a long time! The comment above talking about how just waiting makes a difference in the baby’s strength, ability to nurse, sleep well, etc…totally reminded me to just be patient!
Jessica says...
I am 38 weeks and 5 days, on Thursday at my check up I was 2 cm, 100% effaced, and the baby was either at 0 or at 1. Last night I had regular contractions every 3-4 minutes for 5 hours. Then EVERYTHING just stopped! I am so frustrated. Today there have been some small contractions, but nothing substantial. Is there anything that I can do. I am trying to rest and wait…. I was ready last night, then it stopped… I just went to bed and cried!
Michelle says...
I am 35 weeks and 5 days. I went to my doctors appointment yesterday. He said that I was 1cm and -3 station. Since he checked me I have had contractions. Nothing bad, just irregular. And this morning I got up and my belly button is now facing the floor. I just wonder how much longer it is going to be. He told me yesterday if i started having contractions that were 5 minutes apart in a hour to go to the hospital. Has this ever happen to anyone?
Ashley says...
Today I am 40 weeks and 6 days. I have been contracting off and on for three weeks. I was checked yesterday and am at 1cm 50% and 0 station she also said that my cevix had almost completely softened and that there was just a small rim left. My three children and husband are very anxious they ask me at least three times a day when the baby is going to come. Tomorrow I start going in for non stress tests. I am hoping to somthing will give soon. I can’t be induced due to a previous c-section. My doctor says every womans body is differant and that my body could still change in the blink of an eye. That is what I am counting on. I don’t know how many more videos I can listen to because I woke my husband up snoring.
For all those women that do go over their EDDs I suggest finding some kind of humer in any situation and if you start to be in pain manage it. if you let it get out of control you eventually panic (which I did with my last child). I hope maybe this helps someone all of your comments have certainly helped me to see the variations in women.
Carrie says...
Went today. 40w 5days……4 cm and 50% could have been induced today or picked a day next week…but after having stress test and inturnal finding everything is moving along…I decided to wait and go Naturally…of couse my Dr will not let me go past 42 weeks but atleast I can hope it will happen on its own..Good luck to Everyone….
Jennie @ Modern Mamaz says...
I am 37 weeks and 6 days today. Last doc appointment was yesterday, where he informed me I was a “good” 4 cm and completely effaced. I have been in and out of the hospital since 28 weeks for different issues, most all of them related to my bicornuate uterus. I was in the hospital with my first child from 28 weeks to 34 weeks (water broke at 28 weeks, again due to bicornuate) so I never got this big and uncomfortable. II’m so ready for this baby! I was so excited to find out I was at 3 cm, then nothing happened, and now that I’m at 4 I want to be excited… unfortunately I know that it really doesn’t mean anything!
Krystal says...
I am 34 weeks and I am 1 and a half centimeteres dilated and 50% effaced.
LT says...
Hi all,
I am 34 weeks and 2 days, and have been feeling really heavy in my pelvic area for about 1 days now. My next gynea appointment is on the 2nd June, should I rather schedule an earlier appointment just in case? sometimes it feels so heavy, i have to stop walking or need to put my feet up for relief??? any advice?
Raani says...
It would be nice if some of these women had come back and told how long later they went into labor. Maybe that’s what I’ll do. I’m 37 weeks. I won’t give the exact days since I have conflicting due dates–long story, but I’m at least 37 weeks now. At 36 weeks I was 50 percent effaced and a 1-2. The station was not mentioned, but I feel like the baby dropped yesterday. I have that really heavy feeling and don’t remember ever feeling like this especially this early. This is my fifth baby. My third baby was a planned c-section due to placenta previa, but my other three kids ranged from 3 days to 2 weeks late. I only went into labor naturally once with my fourth baby who was a vbac born six days late. I want to go early this time!
Raani says...
By the way, my advice to LT is to take it easy and stay off your feet. It’s a little too early. You’re probably just carrying low since you didn’t mention being dilated or effaced or having contractions. I would wait for the original dr’s appt.
Raani says...
Update: I had my appt today. My dilation and effacement are the same but now she can feel the baby’s head. (-1 station)
Ariele says...
39weeks and 2days… well acording to the doctor that is. my calculations say i was due on may 25th. but i had an OB appointment today and was told my cervix is softening and 1cm. no station status but that he could feel the head im guessing -1 or 0 hopefully. i would really like this little boy to come soon. lol. there is a lot of cervical pressure today since the exam. maybe my doctor triggered something by performing the exam today!! i can cross my fingers and hope right.
Raani says...
38 weeks 5 days according to my dr. 38 weeks 1 day according to my own calculation based on my last menstrual period. I’m still dilated 1-2, 50 percent effaced, -1 station. Like I mentioned before this is my fifth baby but will be my fourth vaginal delivery. Usually I am told my cervix is thick so the fact that I’m effaced early is encouraging. With my last baby, I was 50 percent effaced and dilated to a 4 when I showed up at the hospital in active labor with painful contractions. I don’t think I was effaced at all at my appt. the day before. Anyway, I’ve been walking a mile a day for the past week and my doctor thinks that’s a good idea. Ariele, We’re almost there!
Mamaofalmost5k says...
I am 38 wks & 6 days, 4cm dilated, 30% effaced & -2….It is my 5th child & I’ve been told that maybe this weekend. Guess What!? It’s been a whole week!!!!, Yes I am tired but I know it will be coming soon, hopefully it will be my 5th vaginal delivery. Every pregnancy is different with my first when I was in active labor, I was 5cm & delivered in 4hrs, 2nd I was 8cm when i was n active labor & delivered 2hrs later, 3rd I was 3cm & delivered 6 hrs later but with the last one I was 2cm when I was in active labor & 10 HRS LATER I delivered!!. My Best friend was 1cm & 80% effaced on Thurs, her little one arrived Sat nite & she was due June 23rd & they’re going home on Mon!! So Stacy after 37wks Babie’s are consider full term. I can’t wait til my lil one arrives b/c I have no clue what this baby will be!!! Baby5 we’re waiting!!
nicole says...
I am 33 wks and have been 75% effaced for 2 wks now and yesterday was 1cm dialted just got put on bedrest for the rest of my prenancy…this is my first and most likely my last pregnancy as well…sheesh not really enjoying being prego in the least.
Raani says...
39 weeks, 5 days according to my ultrasound due date. I had my appt today. I’m still 50 percent effaced and I guess closer to a 2 now than a 1. It didn’t sound much different, but my dr said there’s definitely progress. If I don’t have the baby by my next appt., I’m getting my membranes stripped.
Raani says...
Anyone else still here? I’m either two days overdue or due in two days depending on whether you believe me or the ultrasound. Anyway, I’m experiencing “prodromal labor” meaning I get contractions a lot, but they end up going away. I’ve heard this is common for people with a few kids. I’m hoping to go into active labor soon!
caela says...
Hello I am 35 weeks and 1 day but according to my last u/s I am actually 36 weeks and 1 day. I was checked yesterday and have 0 dialation and 50% effaced and I dont know about station, but she said that she could feel her head. We have an induction date set for July 2nd because of medical issues. I have diabeties and high blood pressure. I had type 2 diabeties before I got preggo and now it has turned into type 1 diabeties. I take 1000 mg of methyldopa for my high bp and of course insulin for my diabeties. But it is looking like she will be coming on her own which I am really greatful for, I really didnt want to be induced at all. My original due date though is July 13th, so she is looking to induce 11 days early if my little one decides that she wants to be stubborn but i really think that she will be here in the next couple of weeks all on her own. Congrats to all of those who will be having their babies soon and all of the new mommies.
Raani says...
I’m over 40 weeks and still haven’t had my baby. I guess early dilation and effacement doesn’t always mean anything, girls! I was a 1-2 at 37 weeks and 50 percent effaced. Now I’m a 2-3. I plan to come back and post again shortly after my baby is born…
LaNissa says...
I am currently 37w2d with my first baby.. I went to my 36 week appt and doc said i was 1cm and 40% effaced and was surprised i was already that.. went back this week for my 37 week appt and I am now 3cm and 60% effaced.. I have a scheduled induction for June 26th and my original due date was June 30th.. Everyone is telling me I am not going to make it till the 26th and that she’s going to come before then because i made so much progress in just 1 week.. I go back to the doc on 6/15 so we shall see if I progress more or stay the same.. I am however having lots of lower back pain, mild period like cramps, and upper abdomen tightening.. hopefully that means more dilation!!
Rochelle says...
My doctor told me that subsequent ultrasound dates don’t mean anything. Your original due date doesn’t change. If your due date is “July 11″ and your 32 week ultrasound reports “July 18,” it just means that your baby is a little small for her age (the size of one that would be due a week later). In general, due dates are +/- 7-12 days (I think- it might be 7-14) based on ultrasounds, so if subsequent ultrasounds are giving new due dates within that range, you have nothing to worry about and your baby is a fine size!
I just had my 36 week appointment and am 0 cm, 60% effaced. My baby has consistently been in the 20-30 %ile for size (I have needed an ultrasound per month due to being on blood thinners). Based on ultrasound due date calculations, that size range pushes my “due date” back almost 2 weeks, which is impossible based on my original 12 week ultrasound confirming the pregnancy in the first place!
Also, I just want to add that I wish people posting here wouldn’t be so judgmental about those of us needing inductions. I need to be induced between 39-40 weeks, because if I go into labor on my own, not in the hospital, and without having my blood thinners reversed, I will probably bleed out and die. Not all of us are blessed with a perfect, easy pregnancy!
Aaryn says...
Raani, have you delivered? we are at 38 weeks, +3, 0cm, 40% effaced. hanging in there.
Gemma says...
Im 38 weeks + 5 days and im not effaced only dilated 0.5 cm with -3 station. Does this mean the babys going to be a while?
Raani says...
I had my baby on June 12th! I just remembered that I promised to come back and post after I delivered, since nobody else seems to do that. I got up to a 2 1/2 and 50 percent effaced at 41 weeks but did not go into active labor on my own. At my last dr’s appt. two days before the birth I had a non stress test and ultrasound and my baby was estimated at 8 1/2 to 9 pounds. I agreed to be induced at 41 weeks based on their ultrasound due date (40 weeks, three days, based on mine). Everything went very smoothly. I was induced with low doses of Pitocin (they were being careful since this was another VBAC for me–see my previous posts). Also, the dr broke my water when I was a three or four. I got an epidural when the pains got bad somewhere between a 5 and a 6. I went from 5-10 in one hour. My precious little Priscilla was 9 pounds 2 ounces and 22 inches long.
sabrina says...
I am currently 35 weeks 5 days, I was told on my 34th week that I was 80% effaced, dilated 1 and at 0 station. Since then I have been on strict bed rest and nothing has changed so far. Things are going ok. I am going to have an amnio next week to see if the baby’s lungs are developed due to being high risk, diabetic etc… i hope he is fine.
hdubs says...
I am 37 weeks, 3 days. Up until my last appointment last Thursday (36 weeks, 5 days), everything with my first pregnancy was textbook and relatively easy. At that appt, my doc said the baby has dropped (I didn’t get a station), I’m 2 cm dilated, and 70 pct effaced. Friday I woke up, threw up a great deal of bile on an empty stomach, and had mild to moderate contrax 20 min apart for 3 hours; more regular and stronger than the Brax-Hicks I’ve been having for 6 or 8 weeks. Saturday I was so sore in my pelvis and groin I could barely walk. Since then, I’ve had tremendous pressure in my pelvis and rear end, almost constant cramping, almost unendurable back pain, loose, yet painful joints, and lots more Braxton-Hicks. This morning I had a thick, white discharge — a fair amount of it. Is this the mucus plug, or a portion of it? No bloody show, other than for a couple of days after a beta strep test at my 36-week appointment 2 weeks ago. My doc is willing to induce between 38 and 40 weeks; does not generally like to go past 40 weeks, for fear of introducing the risk of placental deterioration, large baby that cannot be delivered vaginally, etc. I am not opposed to induction, but I’m wondering if I’m getting close naturally. Has anyone else had a similar experience to me, and if so, how much longer can I likely expect?
Thanks so much!
Dawn says...
I was due on June 20th. At 38 weeks I was 30% effaced, 0 cm dialated, ? station. At 39 weeks I was 50% effaced, 0 cm dialated, -3 station. I went in for an ultrasound and appointment yesterday, at 40 weeks 3 days, and I was 50% effaced, 0 cm dialated, -5 station. NO PROGRESS! The ultrasound estimates the baby to be 9 lbs 4 oz (+/- 1 lb). The doctor stated he will not induce me before 41 weeks, and would not induce under my current status anyway as it may cause complications. With the baby’s head being so high and with a lot of amneotic fluid, induction may cause the cord to prolapse and come out before the baby’s head, ultimately requiring a C-section. He said we need to wait it out and see if it happens on its own, and re-evaluate my status at 41 weeks.
Jessica says...
This is for everyone that has commented saying you should not “induce” or want to have your baby b4 40-42 weeks or “just wait” well i have a little insight for those people. My sister was pregnant with her first child and was 42 weeks when she finally begged to be induced b/c it is very painful and a daily struggle being pregnant “that long” Well they were not wanting to induce, until my mother told my sis’s doc that if anything happened to the baby or her daughter that they would bring legal action against them & hold them accountable. Well they finally induced. 3/25/99 a whopping baby girl was delivered @ over 10 1/2 pounds. The baby girl came out as big as a 2-3 month old infant. She should have been induced AT-LEAST @ 40wks or before b/c she was already a big baby & weighed 8+pnds at 37 weeks . My baby niece came out swollen and looked like she had a bruised face, she was in the womb way too long . PERIOD! And the sad part is my sister can never have another baby ever again b/c of the damage that was done to her uterus and all her girl parts and all she ever wanted was to have multiple children & it will never happen again. She had to have a full hysterectomy , all b/c they left that baby in the womb to long & is completely covered inside with scar tissue & has been in extreme chronic pain since . So its really up to the person carrying the baby when they feel its right.
Angel says...
Wow this is the most informative ste I’ve found so far! I am 37 wks and 2 days today, I am expecting him any time now…have had false labor , bloody show, cramps and a backache for a week hopefully at my appt tomorrow I will hear some good news!!!
joyce michaels says...
i’m 38 weeks be 39 weeks on monday and i went in this morning cuz of the really bad back pain in my lower back well they check my cervix and i’m 1 1/2 cm dialated and 90% effaced and -1 station…
Jessika says...
iam 37 weeks and iam 1cm dialated i cant wait for the little bugger to come out castor oil works and is working right now as we speak
joy says...
im 38 weeks and dilated to 5 cm and effaced 80% im having eregular contractions and would like some helpful tips
Myrna says...
I am 37 3days.. I had my appointment yesterday and after waiting for hours ..my doctor just measured my stomach heard the baby’s heartbeat but never checked if I was effaced or dilated.
Lorrie says...
i’m 38 weeks and woke up this morning at 5 AM with contractions that were about 3 minutes apart. after an hour they were 4-5 minutes apart. i called my dr this morning and he wanted me to come in and get monitored. he told me today that i was in the beginning stages of labor. after he examined me, i was at -2 station 1.5 cm and 70% effaced. GOD, i hope she comes soon! July is SOOO hot in Texas!!!
Britney says...
i have never had a baby, but i’m wondering something. if your cervix only dilates to 10 centimeters and a baby’s head is usually 34 centimeters, then how does its head have enough room to go through?
Malissa says...
I’m 39 weeks today and I’m 70% effaced and 0 cm dialated! I experienced light cramping last night. I guess my body is getting ready for labor!
Terri says...
Lorrie, I am 36 weeks, 2cm, & 60% effaced and was up this morning at 5am with contractions that were 3-4 minutes apart. I had about 5. If you are having contractions, get up and move around. If you still have them then they are the real thing. If they go away then they are more than likely BH. I don’t mind having the contractions because it helps the body progress. Although I am sooo ready to hold my little man, I know that he will come when he is ready. God’s timing is perfect!
Alishia says...
last week at 36 wks i had to go in for contractions and they told me i was 3cm dilated and 80 percent effaced and i wonted to know exectly what that mean am i ready for labor or what
Chrystal says...
I am 38wks and 1day. This is my 4th child. I am 3cm dilated but havent effaced?! How is that possible? And is it possible for the effacement to happen at once? I have been having contractions but losing very little mucous… Im just a little confused. It is right that each labor and delivery is different because she is totally different than my first 3!!!
Kat says...
Wooo….amen to the comment on heat in Texas! I am 38+2, 4cm and -1 according to the docs on Friday. I see that pregnancy is different for everyone. It’s amazing how many different experiences everyone has had or is having. I’m certainly ready to give birth, but I just want to have a happy, healthy baby
Good luck to all! I pray we all have relatively fast deliveries and no complications.
rasha says...
i am 39 weeks today and my doctors havent told me any of that. why, and what should i do
Kailyn says...
Got checked this Saturday 37 weeks and 1 day..1cm dialated,70% effaced, and baby girl is at 0-station. Today is now Wed. and i went back to Dr. and I’m still the EXACT same as Saturday (all these contractions for 5 days and NOTHING)!! Ughh im so ready to see my little girl and its just not coming fast enough!
wenjo says...
At 36 weeks 1 day I was 0cm dilated and 30% effaced… at 37 weeks 2 days I was 1 cm dilated and 40% effaced… I am READY to have this baby girl!!
Tara says...
Im 36 weeks 5 days with our first! I just got checked yesterday 4cm dialated, 90% effaced, -1 station. Ive been contracting and in so much pain for the last week. Doctor says she doesnt think ill be pregnant for too much longer and that when things do pick up to high tail it to the hospital because it should happen fast! ONLY NOT FAST ENOUGH! I dont know how much longer I can handle this. Any suggestions or thoughts?
Lisa says...
i am 36 weeks. the dr told me that the baby is really low and that i am really thinned out… but ddnt say how much. have had false labor once and had to have a pill to stop my contractions. if i dont go into labor on my own i will be induced in 2 weeks due to my little boy’s size. he is very small and they are worried that he is not getting any nutrition. he is in the 9th percent in weight… they consider normal to be 50 percent! my dr said that he starts to run the risk of being stillborn if he is not getting any nutrition so they will probably take him just to be on the safe side. i have weekly sonograms to check on the bloodflow through the umbilical cord to make sure it is okay. i also have weekly non-stress tests to check on his heart. i feel for any who are having a difficult pregnancy and i pray for you and your baby! know that you are not alone.
steve says...
Hi my wife is 38 weeks, 3cm and 50%. this is our 3rd, I am getting very excited to deliver my son. we have had two natural and one at home this will be number two. I am hoping for a happy healthy birth and we are so excited to meet our little Maverick. good luck to all in your births
stephanie says...
Hello this is my second child . My first was a girl now im having a boy im currently 35 weeksz and 1 day …im so dying to have this baby . I feel so heavy.I get so much pain that I could barely walk I have an appt on sept 30 which would make me 36 weeks and 2 daysz hopefully they tell me im dialated thiiniing or something . I will update you guys
Katie says...
I am 37 weeks and 5 days. I was check last thurs. Sept. 24th and was 1-2cm and 90% effaced. They said her head was low but didn’t give me a station number. I go back tomorrow Oct. 1st! Also, I started loosing my plug about a week ago and it slowly stopped coming. Does that mean its completely out?
proudmama04 says...
i am 39w4d gestation. as of yesterday i was 4cm and 70%. the baby is low, but the dr never said at what station she was in. however me, my hubby, and 2 little boys are patiently awaiting her arrival.
Christy says...
Ok ladies, I went to the Dr Wednesday and was 36wks and 5days pregnant. They did the routine strep test, and during that he checked to see if I was dilated, and indeed I am, I was 3cm and 90% effaced!! Excited to hear this news I thought surely it’d be that day or the next, well its Friday and I’m still pregnant. The nurse said some women walk around for wks like this. So I’m convinced these numbers don’t mean squat it just means your body is getting ready for labor, reality is the baby will come when its ready! Don’t try castor oil or any of that mess, if it gives you the runs, it’ll do the same for baby, and that could be deadly if the baby inhales or swallows its own bowel movement. Just be patient.
Julie says...
I’m 33 weeks and was just in the hospital with flu like sypmtoms…turns out i’m dialated to 1cm and 70% efaced…what does that mean!?!?
Bre'Anna says...
i am 40 wks pregnant . my due date was nov.15 . so today i seen my doc and he told me i am 4cm dialated and 80% effaced. i was sent to the hospital for a non stress test after my doc appt . I was having contractions from my doc checking my cervix and now they seem to be wearing down . so i am scheduled for an induction this wkend !
Tracy says...
I agree, the numbers really are so personal to the mama and baby that it is impossible to tell when your new little one will be delivered based on how far along you are dialated or effaced or stationed. I was dialated to 3cm at 36 weeks with my first and he was induced at 42 weeks – large and in charge from the beginning! I am at 38 weeks now, 2cm dialated 75% effaced and it is business as usual for me, he will be here when he wants to be here – no matter what I do!
Love those babies!
kayleigh says...
i am 35 +3 weeks and am not seing my midwife again for another 2 weeks i will be almost 38 weeks. i have not been told how dilated or effaced iam. my midwife seems to be very crap. what shall i do, i am getting very bad pains in my pelvis and ‘flower’ and finding it very difficult to walk or move with the pain in my pelvis. this is my 3rd baby but i have forgotten everything and dont remember any of this.
thanks
2Boys says...
I’m in my 40th week now and happy that my baby girl isn’t quite ready yet. I’ve have perfect pregnancies and easy deliveries in the past though. It has to be a lot different if you’re in pain and have suffered through much of your time. I feel very lucky that I have enjoyed every moment of each pregnancy. My little girl was breech until into the 38th week so I was so happy that she wasn’t ready to come. I was prepared to wait as long as possible for her to turn. Luckily, I was able to get her to turn myself by just pushing her around a bit. Now, its whenever she’s ready but I’ll happily keep her with me as long as she likes. The kicking and moving is such a wonderful miracle! Best to all of you for easy deliveries whether induced, C-section or natural!
Kristin says...
I’ll be 36 weeks tomorrow. I’m 2cm, 80% ef, and -2 st. im sooo ready for this to be over with.. but my due date isnt untill January 9th and the doc says im not gonna make it. its really uncomfortable and makes going to school hard.
Jen is on ifer says...
I am 36 weeks +2 days last appointment I was 2 cm dilated, 50 % effaced and -2. Due date is on Jan 20….doctor doesnt think I will make it
This is baby #4 for us!!
Abbi says...
Hi I’m 39 and 2 days. 3cm 80% ?station. Having a girl. I can’t feel the contractions well enough to count them. Nothing hurts. Husband comes home from Iraq on Sunday. Hopefully.
Angie says...
Hi! I am 36 weeks, 2 days and just came back from my appt. I have a question. My doc was able to feel the baby’s head on exam and I have definitely dropped, and am 70% effaced. She didn’t tell me cm’s or station. Any guesses based on being able to “get a finger in” and feel the baby’s head?
Melissa says...
Hey all! I am 39 weeks and 4 days now. I saw the Dr. today and he said I am 2 centimeters dialted and 75% effaced! I’m so excited! I’m so ready for this! It could be anyday now…I guess it depends on how fast it thins out and how fast I dialate! But, I am so ready to meet him!
Martha says...
I am 37 weeks and 1 day -I got checked this morning and I am 1 cm dilated, 50% effaced and the Doc said baby is low -at least I know my body is doing something! I just hope I get further along before my water breaks.
maristela says...
im 40 weeks 2 days and still haven’t been checked for these numbers!
i have much pelvic pain and ready to have this baby
Mammaof4 says...
congrats to all the mommies on this post. I am 36 weeks and 4 days pregnant with my fourth. My first was 9 days overdue and had to have her c-section from fetal distress my second was 6 days over due and I requested to be induced because it was getting expensive being out of work and staying out of town. My 3 the doc induced me after 8 days against my preference. Now on my fourth I want so bad to have a “natural birth” I do not judge anyone who chooses to be induced, personally after having 2 of them I want nothing more than a normal experience this time
Jessica says...
went to the Dr.’s today… I am 39 weeks and 5 days. Doc says that I am 3cm, -2, and 75%!!!! But I have been dilated and 75% effaced for 3 weeks!! I haven’t had not one contraction!!! What gives!!????
Mauri says...
I am 36 weeks and 4 days however according to my ultrasound I am 37 weeks and 4 days, feeling lots of pelvic pressure and some contractions I went to the dr yesterday and they told me I was 2cm dilated o% effaced and I did not ask the station. I don’t understand how my cervix has not done anything and I am dilating.
darlene says...
I am 37 weeks….went to my doctor today and was told that I am still 1 cm but almost completely effaced. I do not know what station I am at but my doctor did say my baby’s head was in position. I am due on 1/25 but I think I could go earlier. This is my first baby so who knows.
morgan says...
im 38 weeks. the doctor told me i was 2 centimeters dialted, i was thined out and his head is in the birth cannal.
i have been having craming and bowl movements this week and my mucus plug has come out.
how much longer do i havee?
jams says...
37wks4d, went to the doctor today and despite backaches, cramps and contractions, nothing is happening to get the actual show on the road. My mom had c-sections with all of her children, and this is my first. I’m really hoping to deliver vaginally, keep your fingers crossed that at next week’s appointment I get news that there is some action going on in there! Good luck to everyone!
Kimmiexo says...
I just went to the doctor today. I’m 39 weeks and 1 day and was told I probably won’t make it to my next appointment in a week. I’m 3 centimeters dilated, 60% effaced, and -1…. Any ideas on when I may possibly be going into labor? I’ve had Braxton hicks mainly every night along with alot of pressure from the baby pushing down and have had loose bowels the past week or so.
Jeannie says...
I’m 37 weeks and 2 days. Last week I was measured at 36 and 1/2 cm from the top of my pubic bone to the top of my uterous. This visit I measured 39 which means i’ve gotten considerably bigger in a week. I had to asked to be checked because this is my 5th baby and not my first rodeo. The doc checked me and i’m already 80% and 2+ centimeters dialated. My baby is still floating and not fixed. I just wanted to comment to all the ladies out there that are wondering when they will pop. The answer is….just go with it nobody knows from one baby to the next. I thought i was an expert but i’m not. Lol. I’m just like the rest of you ladies, trying very hard to be patient.
Cierra says...
on jan. 25th 2010 i was 38wks dilated 4 cms and 75% effaced i havent had any contractions i go in 2morrow for another check i wanna have this baby so bad
pregnant#2 says...
im 38 wks and went to te doc. today im o cent. dialated and 50% effaced….. no idea on the stage….. im really uncomfortable all the time but nothing is happening no contractions or anything…. im very active and busy and still workin all the way till my due date. hoping somthing will happen soon but not exactly rushing it i think its more excitment then being impatient…. im kinda nervous im still young and this is my sec. my first preg was rough i had gaulstones and was always sick and everything was planned so i dont actually know what its like to have my water break or go into labor on my own kinda nervous does this make any sense i feel stupid putting it that wayy but its how i feel? best luck to everyone and congrats