by Mark Brandenburg MA, CPCC
“What are you thinking? Haven’t we talked about this before?” My seven-year-old son looked down at the food that had just spilled on the kitchen floor. He stood statue-still, as children often do after an accident. The words and tone I’d used were having their impact. He braced himself to fight [...]
Tags: better, encourage, feelings, kids, Parenting, patience, positive, punishment, reinforce, self-worth, shame
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by Kelly E. Nault, M.A.
When your child misbehaves, do you find yourself feeling like they’re “out to get you”? Contrary to what you might be feeling at the time, your child probably doesn’t intend to misbehave with the intention to spoil your day. Usually, misbehavior stems from their own feelings of discouragement.
Rudolph Dreikurs said, “A [...]
Tags: encourage, encouragement, Parenting, positive, praise, rules
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by Armin Brott
At one time or another, all parents struggle with discipline—establishing and enforcing limits, and getting their kids to speak to them respectfully and do what they’re supposed to do. But remember: discipline isn’t only about correction.
It’s also about teaching kids to control themselves and care about others so they can grow up to [...]
Tags: behavior, bribes, calm, choices, compromise, consequences, consistent, criticize, dad, discipline, firm, games, idea, kids, lecture, Parenting, positive, reinforce, self esteem, shaking, spank, specific, tantrums, toddler, warnings, whining, work
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by Dr. Mark Nagler, Ph.D.
Finding out that a child has been born with a disability, or that a previously healthy child has suffered an injury or disease that causes a disability can be the most traumatic moment in a parent’s life. Shock is usually the first thing people experience. It can temporarily paralyze you, preventing [...]
Tags: attitude, Baby, child, cope, decisions, disability, Health, positive, professionals
Posted in: Health
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By Elizabeth Pantley, Author of Perfect Parenting
Situation: It never fails, when we’re on vacation, the rains hit. We’re all stuck in the hotel room, and inevitably everyone gets grumpy. How do we keep the kids happy if this disaster strikes again?
Think about it: To quote the insightful words of William Shakespeare, “Nothing is good or [...]
Tags: build, explore, hide, Parenting, plan, play, positive, prepare, rain, raining, tub, vacation, water
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by Elizabeth Pantley, Author of Kid Cooperation and Perfect Parenting
During their growth and development, children go through many stages of self-doubt. They are always comparing themselves to others, and they often see themselves as coming up short. As parents, we can offset this natural tendency in our children by giving them the skills to think [...]
Tags: attitude, kids, learn, positive, reassure, school, teach, thinking
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by Elizabeth Pantley, Author of Perfect Parenting and Kid Cooperation
Question:
My son fusses, whines, and complains every morning when I get ready to leave for work. I have to work, and I want to work, but my son’s attitude makes me feel terrible. Also, this is a lousy way to start the day.
Think about it:
Children easily [...]
Tags: attitude, Baby, brief, feelings, fuss, kid, leave, mom, positive, prolong, reassure, toddler, understand, work
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By Elizabeth Pantley, Author of Kid Cooperation and Perfect Parenting
Toddlers and preschoolers require finesse to gain their cooperation, because they have not yet reached the age at which they can see and understand the whole picture, so simply explaining what you want doesn’t always work. Robert Scotellaro is quoted in The Funny Side of Parenthood [...]
Tags: cooperate, diaper, games, learning, negative, play, positive, toddler
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by News Canada
(NC)—The first year of a child’s life is a prime time for exploring. Babies are excited and eager to learn about the world around them and playing is essential to a child’s development. Parents are the best learning resource a child has, and playtime offers a chance for bonding between parents and children. [...]
Tags: Baby, bond, discover, explore, grow, laugh, learn, play, positive, reward
Posted in: Baby, Brain Development
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By Karen Millard
A baby’s unselfconscious laughter is one of the happiest sounds you’ll ever hear. But did you know that by playing with your baby, you’re doing much more than simply having fun?
Those adoring gazes you share; all those games of patty-cake; the suspense-filled moments waiting for the jack-in-the-box to appear and the excited laughter [...]
Tags: Baby, laugh, laughter, optomistic, peek-a-boo, play, positive
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